When Being Stuck in the Cross Road is No Longer an Option

At the beginning of a new year, we think about accomplishments, what needs improving and add to our dream list.

As 2020 is quickly approaching, I am thrilled and honored how Healing Place as grown since 2006. We educate people about the healing benefits of Reflexology, Energy Healing, Reiki, meditation, and wellness coaching.

We have also expanded our education division by adding an online, HealingPlaceEnergySchool.com. Our online school teaches self-growth, self-care, and self-healing courses from the privacy of their homes.

I wrote this blog – Are you Stuck in the Crossroad of Life? in 2012, when I was frustrated and STUCK in the crossroad of life while I was making significant business changes.

Anyone can make changes in their lives. Don’t let fear and doubt dictate your life. All you have to do is take the next step.

I wish you joy, fulfillment, and peace.

Are You Stuck in the Crossroad of Life?

All my life, I have been waiting for someone to give me permission to be “me.” Even though I am blessed with coming up with great ideas, great action plans, and the ability to move ahead. But somewhere in the process, I almost always sabotage myself. Why? Just the thought of growing scares me. My monkey brain goes into overdrive. I am STUCK again.

Each time I get STUCK, it becomes an internal battle for me. Which way do I go? How do I proceed? How much money is it going to cost? How much time will it take? How can I do it? Will I fail? How can I add more one task to my full plate?

I get so frustrated with myself because I know that I am doing this to myself. I then force myself to break through my crazy thoughts because being STUCK is more painful than the UNKNOWN.

At the crossroad, I look north, south, east, and west, wondering which direction I should go. My legs and mind move so slowly. I am stuck in the middle of that damn crossroad again. I am fighting to break away. In the meantime, I am spending TOO much fighting with myself to get UNSTUCK.

What a vicious cycle.

I eventually break away. I jump and run as fast as I can. I become like the wind. I become fearless after I have paid the price of overthinking. But then I am stuck at another crossroad (grr…) I decided to make an investment in my business and grow it to the next level.

It is an investment that I cannot afford, but then again, I cannot afford NOT to do it. I am older now. I am at the point in my life. I have to make another serious decision.

The time to mull it over is over. It’s time to live my life with purpose and to play it BIG instead of wishing, waiting, and hoping.

Breaking away from the crossroad feels so good!

About the Writer

Helen Chin Lui is a Certified Reflexologist, Certified Energy Medicine Practitioner, Reiki Master, and teacher. She is the owner of the Healing Place LLC and Healing Place Energy School LLC.

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