Continuation of blog – Steps to Live an Authentic Life

Tips to Live an Authentic Life

Start off by asking yourself:

  • Ask yourself, where you are right this minute?
  • Are you happy?
  • Are you tired of the same routine?
  • Do you feel like you are spinning your wheels, but not going anywhere?

From your answers, you can decide what changes you want to make today!

What Changes Can I Make Now?

This is a short list of tips, please add to your list.

Quiet down your Mental Chatter

To stomp out unwelcome internal chatter, find joyful activities that produce the calming hormone, serotonin; activities that can divert your attention and help you to find your focus. You can be one of those people who feel good when in nature. (I like walking with my puppies.) Or perhaps, you get lost in a good book. Do you set aside enough “me” time and meditate? Maybe you are a yoga enthusiast. Do people feed your soul?

The Power of Journalling

Since I write so much, I have learned to free myself mentally through writing. Writing has taught me to have honest conversations with myself as I decide what to write about that will be helpful to you.

Family and Friends

Family and friends can be a wonderful support system. As much as I love to be with them, I have to limit my time with them. Sometimes family and friend drama can be overwhelming and draining. It took a long time for me to set boundaries. This doesn’t mean that I don’t need them, but I don’t need their constant presence and validation.

Find a Passion

We hear the word passion, but many don’t know what it really it. Passion is a strong emotion that can be scary and exhilarating at the same time, especially when you are about to embark on a new adventure.

I admit I am a very passionate person. I love so many things that I do. I love my healing work, connecting to people; I love to write and teach. Most of all, I love my family. Everyone has a passion! Finding your passion can take you out of your comfort zone as you explore new challenges.

Go out and find your passion!

Growth is scary

Change is SCARY but necessary for GROWTH! Take the time to look honesty about your life and evaluate your needs. If you feel you need to make a change, this is the time to develop an action plan to help you to grow. All the wishing in the world will not help you if you do not have an action plan.

If you need help, reach out to professionals. As wonderful as family and friends are, they may not be the best people to give you guidance if your changes affect your relationship with them.

Free Yourself From Negativity

By making small changes, you begin to free yourself from a negative energy rut and work towards living an authentic life.



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Helen Chin Lui

Certified Reflexologist

About the writer: Helen Chin Lui has been practicing professional reflexology since 2006. She is the owner and founder of the Healing Place LLC and Healing Place Energy School LLC in Medfield, MA, USA.  Helen has reflexology certificates in the foot, hand, ear, pediatric, fertility, pain management, advance digestive, musculoskeletal, Palliative and Cancer Care, and Acupressure Reflexology. She is also a Certified Energy Medicine Practitioner, Usui Reiki Master, and teacher.

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